My Kids

It is already 7 o'clock in the morning but I already feel the hot of the sun outside. Me and my kids, we  take a bath  to feel fresh before we eat breakfast. After the breakfast they start open their books because they really love to learn more and I am happy for that.

When I check the time it is already 7:45 am it is time to go to my work. It is really sad being a working mother because you don't have a time to be with them especially in study time. 

Certification

I got my daughter certification, it is really nice because right after the graduation they recieved their certification not like before when I'm kinder its take a week before you get or you need to request first then after a week you come back .Now, maybe because it is computerized it's make easier and faster. I have also this certification of my son last year and I decided to put here so that I share it to you. It is different design but it is both nice design.

What do you think guys?

New Life

I read this short story in her life when she's only 8 years old up to 14 years old. Here is it:

The next seven years of my life were mostly spent in school. Since I was young I loved the spotlight, the attention of my teachers and classmates whenever I participate in school activities. That’s the

reason that I love joining academic and extracurricular activities in school.

I have joined almost every club available and became actively participative in it. Them I was constantly appointed to being the officer- in class in the different clubs and even in small group activities. In other word I’ve always been chosen and trusted to lead the group. I enjoyed the privileged of being the leader; being the one on top, the one that every body looks up to, everyone listens to and everyone follows. At first I thought that being a leader was easy, all I should do was order people around to teach them what they have to do and just get the job done. Then a certain experience made me realize that leading isn’t as easy as what I have expected it to be. At one point in time I felt the power of being a leader, and that filled me in a negative way; I became too bossy, I didn’t mind what my group has to say or how they felt. As long as we got the job done and as long as we won the competitions at was all good for me. Then it came up, my group is no longer happy by my leadership. We had an open forum, that’s the time they were able to tell me how they truly felt. Then the one that struck me the most was when they said that- I used to be their friend, I used to treat them well, that I used to be a good listener, that we used to have fun, used to laugh together- that I used to have a good relationship with them, that’s the reason why they chose me as their leader. But I’ve changed in a bad way. I’ve realized that I was wrong and made an act to change all of that. I’ve changed my leadership style from an autocratic style; that acts in a command and control fashion to a more democratic style; where I encourage participation with an emphasis on both task accomplishment and development of people in my group.

I have learned that to be an effective leader I should be able to inspire others to work hard to be able to accomplish our tasks and reach our goals. and that leading is building the commitments and enthusiasm in order for my group to explore their talents and use it to our groups advantage.

The sad story of young girl

I read this sad story of a young girl. Six (6) years ago, when her dad left her mom for the 'other' woman. Her mom and dad had been married for almost 35 years. Her mom came home from work one Friday to find a note on the kitchen table saying that her dad left her and that he was sorry. She also found that her dad had taken all his stuff out of the closet and the medicine cabinet. Obviously, her mom was freaked out; the young girl helped her mom. The kid’s parents got divorced about a year or so after that fateful Friday. The young girl tries to talk to her father one time about a month after he left. The young girl have not talked to her dad or seen since then. So it’s been about 6 years since she has seen to her dad or talked to him who is really sad. She still closes with her mom however and she has made progress on getting over to her dad and made peace with the divorce. It was really hard on her.

It is really hard to a kids when your parents getting divorced, I'm really touch this story because I grew up in a wonderful family that's why I can relate this story, I fell sorry to those kids who are growing with a broken family.

New Song for my Kids

This morning I teach my two kids how to sing Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star . This song is very familiar in all kids. I sing the song first and then they follow, while I'm singing they wonder why I stop singing in the middle of the song hehehe they I asked me why, I told them that I forgot the next lyrics hehehe. That's why I decided to search in internet the whole lyrics of the “ Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star” .Here is :

Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star

Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!

When the blazing sun is gone,
When there's nothing he shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle, through the night.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!

In the dark blue sky so deep
Through my curtains often peep
For you never close your eyes
’Til the morning sun does rise
Twinkle, twinkle, little star
How I wonder what you are

Twinkle, twinkle, little star
How I wonder what you are

My Two Little Angel

These are my two little angel of my life. My oldest is John Angelo Paculanan Perez, 5 years old. He was born on November 07,2004. He is very choosy in what he eat, what he wear, toys and also choosing a playmate. He really like to watch " TOM & JERRY", every time I mention that I want to watch movie he always insist to watch " TOM & JERRY" even though he is already watched it many times. This is my daughter Jane Angela Paculanan Perez, 3 years old. He was born on August 20,2006. Unlike his kuya she is not choosy, she like everything like vegetable, hotdog, bread etc. She like to watched "BARBIE" movie. She love to dance and pose to take a picture. Every time I see them happy, I felt very happy too and they are my inspiration. They give me strength to face all trials comes in my life.

About Me

Hi I'm Janet Paculanan, 25 years old. I was born on January 19 in Tarlac City. When I was 14 years old my father died in acute ulcer disease after that my mother really depressed so she decided to go back in her home town in Davao City were we grow up. When I'm in college my mother can't provide all my needs in my studies since my father died, so I decided to stop for awhile and work so that I can earn money for my studies for the next opening. I take up Computer Technology because I believed that it is really in demand nowadays. I Graduate in that course because I worked in the night as a waitress / assistant barmaid but after 6 months I transferred to other job as a cashier in a internet cafe were I'm still worked right now. I finished my course but still I continuing to work here . God gave me a two wonderful kids their name’s are John Angelo Perez and Jane Angela Perez they gave me strength to face all struggle in life. Right now, I'm planning to learn a korean language because I'm planning to abroad for my children’s future.